THE PROBLEM
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3STRIKES
DATING FOR PEOPLE WHO SHOW UP

A dating app that spots patterns. Ghosters, flakers, and time-wasters don't last long here.

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We believe reliability should be attractive.

The Idea

Same Rules
For Everyone

Same rules for everyone. The system recognises patterns, not one-off bad days.

Real Consequences

We hold each of us accountable.

No Free Passes

The system spots patterns. Consistently ghost, flake, or waste people's time and it catches up with you.

A Better Culture

When everyone's held to the same standard, everyone wins.

The Experience

Built Different

10

Matches A Day

That's it. Ten. Enough to actually read their profiles instead of swiping on autopilot.

Verified Profiles

Everyone's ID-checked. No catfishing. You're always talking to a real person.

Reliability Scores

You can see who actually shows up. And they can see that you do too.

Matchmaker Mode

Send profiles to your single friends.

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You deserve
better

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Reliability is
attractive

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Actions have
consequences

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You deserve
better

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Reliability is
attractive

03

Actions have
consequences

What if a dating app actually |

Not For Everyone

You'll love it here if...

  • You value your time and respect others'
  • You believe honest communication beats silence
  • You want quality connections, not endless options
  • You actually show up

Probably not for you if...

  • You prefer keeping your options open
  • Ghosting is easier than a hard conversation
  • Plans are more like suggestions
  • You're just browsing

We're building a dating culture where good people thrive and bad behaviour has nowhere to hide.

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Show Up?

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