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3STRIKES is a dating app where bad behaviour has real consequences. Ghost someone, flake on a date, or waste people's time and you get a strike. Three strikes and your account is suspended. Everyone is held to the same standard.

Most dating apps reward quantity over quality. 3STRIKES is the opposite. You get only 10 matches a day, everyone is ID-verified, and there are real consequences for treating people badly. We're building a culture where reliability is attractive and good people thrive.

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The system looks at patterns of behaviour over time, not individual incidents. Everyone has off days. What matters is whether ghosting, flaking, or dropping plans is a one-off or a habit. Repeated patterns are what move the needle on your score.

Consistently disappearing after making plans, regularly cancelling at the last minute, or repeatedly failing to follow through on conversations. The system recognises these patterns over time. A single bad week won't define your score.

Absolutely. Scores aren't permanent. They reflect your recent track record. Show up consistently, communicate openly, and your score will reflect that over time. People grow and change, and the system is built to account for that.

Yes. The system tracks how consistently your feedback lines up with what's actually happening. People who give fair, accurate feedback help the community work better, and their reports carry more weight over time. Feedback that consistently doesn't match reality carries less.

Life happens, and the system knows that. Cancelling with notice and honest communication is completely fine. The system is looking for patterns of repeatedly leaving people hanging, not the occasional change of plans.

The system is designed to prevent that. Because feedback accuracy is tracked, people who consistently give reports that don't reflect reality will see their own influence on others' scores decrease. It's a self-balancing system that rewards honesty on all sides.

Every member completes identity verification before they can start matching. This ensures every profile belongs to a real person and eliminates catfishing. Your ID data is handled securely and never shared with other users.

Your privacy is taken seriously. Verification data is encrypted and stored securely. Other users only see your profile information, not your verification details. Full details are in our Privacy Policy.

Ten matches is enough to find someone interesting but few enough to actually engage with each person. No more swiping on autopilot. Fewer matches means better conversations and more genuine connections.

Your reliability score reflects how you treat the people you match with. It's based on whether you follow through on plans, communicate honestly, and show up when you say you will. Everyone can see it, so it pays to be dependable.

See a profile that's perfect for your single friend? Matchmaker Mode lets you send it to them. Great matches shouldn't go to waste, and sometimes your friends know what you need better than an algorithm does.